This blog ties in with my website which looks at how by assuming responsibility for yourself and your actions you can improve your relationships, and indeed your whole outlook on life.

What follows are some up to date topics around Relationships and Personal Growth. These will be updated regularly.

For instance there are pointers to latest E zine articles, a favorite topic seems to be “How to get back my boyfriend/girlfriend”

The way I would like you to read them is by asking yourself questions. For instance lets say E Zine article is about how to get Boyfriend back. Ask yourself why did they break up? Perhaps by looking at this point instead of sneaky ways of  getting her back, or even romantic ways,you discover a pattern of when I get close to some one I start to push them away. Now working on these reasons will improve your chances in a new relationship and will be more useful than trying to get back something that you pushed away.

Now this is not easy, its damn hard to look at yourself and your habits and attitudes objectively and to ask yourself ” where did that opinion/thought come from. Was it from Mum / Dad, school, or a hard lesson learned elsewhere.”

Once you have done this exercise several times you will begin to look at life/relationships differently, perhaps moving on from being stuck in one frame of mind, or perhaps allow you to forgive yourself and move on.
Honesty with yourself is one of the keys. Don’t descend into a pit of remorse, or self pity, you are after all only human and you are allowed to make mistakes. But only if you learn from them.
If YOU DARE TO TRY then push the BLOG button–GOOD TRAVELLING